Steps for Nerds to get a girl.

[Vivido]

The closest thing ive come to a girl gamer is one who liked playing the angry birds and super mario..

[Whisper]

Number one tip, and one that especially applies to "nerds": Girls are people. Stop seeing them as "girls", and accept that they're pretty much the same as you; same insecurities; same faults; same fears.

We're all looking for the same thing, so don't be afraid to show interest in a girl. It doesn't make you a "perv" if you smile at a girl you like, it doesn't make you weird. You're allowed to send signals, you're allowed to flirt, just don't expect it to always work. Be prepared to get turned down. Everyone has to go through that, and you're no exception. It's not because you're "different" or "broken" or "weird", it's just that you're probably not compatible with that person, and she doesn't want to waste her time or yours.

My 5¢.

[phoenix]

Number one tip, and one that especially applies to "nerds": Girls are people. Stop seeing them as "girls", and accept that they're pretty much the same as you; same insecurities; same faults; same fears.

We're all looking for the same thing, so don't be afraid to show interest in a girl. It doesn't make you a "perv" if you smile at a girl you like, it doesn't make you weird. You're allowed to send signals, you're allowed to flirt, just don't expect it to always work. Be prepared to get turned down. Everyone has to go through that, and you're no exception. It's not because you're "different" or "broken" or "weird", it's just that you're probably not compatible with that person, and she doesn't want to waste her time or yours.

My 5¢.

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It has taken me quite some time to draw the same conclusion.

[Azimuth]

Number one tip, and one that especially applies to "nerds": Girls are people. Stop seeing them as "girls", and accept that they're pretty much the same as you; same insecurities; same faults; same fears.

We're all looking for the same thing, so don't be afraid to show interest in a girl. It doesn't make you a "perv" if you smile at a girl you like, it doesn't make you weird. You're allowed to send signals, you're allowed to flirt, just don't expect it to always work. Be prepared to get turned down. Everyone has to go through that, and you're no exception. It's not because you're "different" or "broken" or "weird", it's just that you're probably not compatible with that person, and she doesn't want to waste her time or yours.

I'd also add that it's important to get over it and move on when it's obvious a woman isn't into you. And it IS obvious. Men make excuses about women sending "obscure signals", but dating other people and not dating you is not an obscure signal. Continuing to flirt and make passes at a woman who is clearly not interested in you is a one-way ticket to Creepville, Population: You.

Oh, AND. Just because a woman is into games and you're into games doesn't mean you're meant to be together forever. It takes more than just a single shared interest to maintain a meaningful relationship.

[Graal]

Also, you know that totally awesome theory that girls like guys who treat them poorly? It's a bullshit theory invented by morons. Morons are attracted to people who treat them poorly.

If you think you're continuously being turned down because you're a 'nice guy', maybe you're looking for relationships in the wrong place? I certainly don't want to date someone who likes their relationship partner to be an asshole.

[MOnk]

Besides who wants geek tips for get a girl, I want tips on getting a geek girl.

[Verrayne]

I said Hi, she said hello. 3 years later we're engaged.

O.o

[Wolfman]

Met an old school friend on Facebook again 3 years ago. HIGHLY attractive girl + favourite game is God of war.
Getting married in 4 weeks.

Here's to geek girls!

[Erwin Kempff]

Well said madam!

[panthis]

Oh yay! another one of these posts! thumbs up