After a Break Up

[MalicE]

Watch out for the canopy Goose!

[simon]

edited, just because

[OmegaFenix]

why not?
for me, I still see her as the one I want to marry, but I don't know if that is her perspective because of the apparent reasons she gave when she broke up, but that how do I say, stuff that goes along with it with random encounters to me seems like it would help me

Because you will end up hating yourself. Trust me on this I also felt that I wanted to get back together with my ex and I went to a really dark place after it became clear that she didn't feel the same and did one of the things I had always sworn I would never do, In my 27 years its one of my biggest regrets. Sure the short term it may "feel" good but it wont last and when you do finally meet that perfect woman or even get back together with ur current ex do you really want to confess you aimless random sexual partners? Do you think that will make things better? Nope if your back with your ex she may find u disgusting and send u packing again. If you find a new perfect woman it may destroy something that could have been. I was fortunate enough that my wife understood the reasons for me doing what I did and understood that I felt worse about and did need to be "punished" or anything like that.

[MalicE]

Mother is the name for god on the lips and hearts of all children.

[simon]

edited, just because

[OmegaFenix]

And that is the exact reasons why I am holding myself back. There are a lot of unanswered questions that I have to ask her and cannot move on till they are answered, those answers will take a long time due to certain reasons and I feel like I am being strung along. So I guess the reasons for doing it are to help me move on, closure, comfort and moral boosting.

My Advice is to just move on and accept that all the questions will never be answered to your satisfaction. Holding onto those and other "what ifs" will only lead you down a depressing path. Also doing it wont help you move on and it wont boost your moral, it will have the opposite effect. Find comfort and a boost in the company of your friends, closure comes in time like when I see my Ex on Fb and see she is still single, still living at home, still the same miserable cow she was when we split and I realise that if I had stayed with her I would have been just as miserable.

[sycogrim]

My Advice is to just move on and accept that all the questions will never be answered to your satisfaction. Holding onto those and other "what ifs" will only lead you down a depressing path. Also doing it wont help you move on and it wont boost your moral, it will have the opposite effect. Find comfort and a boost in the company of your friends, closure comes in time like when I see my Ex on Fb and see she is still single, still living at home, still the same miserable cow she was when we split and I realise that if I had stayed with her I would have been just as miserable.

Dude I went and looked up mine on Failbook the other day and found that she is like a fatty now bwahahahahahahaha... I like the revenge that came to her since our nasty breakup.

[OmegaFenix]

Dude I went and looked up mine on Failbook the other day and found that she is like a fatty now bwahahahahahahaha... I like the revenge that came to her since our nasty breakup.

Lol! Ok then.

[simon]

edited, just because

[OmegaFenix]

Thanks Omega. You really have given me good advice. I guess I just need to have stronger will power then my vulnerability. Best of luck to me then... I would give you +1 but it won't let me again so, here have a cookie. This is my favourite type so

What?! Why wont it let you give me rep? You haven't been one of the last 10 people to give me rep (either positive or negative). I call HAX!

EDIT: Thanks for cookies though, u dont find Romany Creams here.