
Originally Posted by
shadowfox
Bull.
There's a major difference between being a floormat and being decent and respectful. I'm guessing you haven't spotted that line yet. And I'm feeling sorry for the woman you eventually do marry - I can see that when she gets pregnant and gets emotional (which ALL pregnant women do), you're going to most likely be one of the unsympathetic bastards. Because, you know, showing sympathy and giving her a break would make you look weak. I could be wrong, but I've seen the pattern in the past.
And therein lies your problem. I'm guessing you ran after the looks and not the personalities.
Sounds suspiciously like pirates and their "sticking it to the man" - or in this case, girl - syndrome.
Frankly - Kuga, I can't tell you you're entirely wrong. I don't know what you went through. But from my point of view, I wouldn't be able to respect you, and the same goes for girls who would be willing to have a quick fling at the same time. Doesn't matter how much I have in common with them, or how incredibly good looking they are, or whatever other bonuses come with the package - I just can't respect them.
Goes completely against my grain.
I know I say this at risk of offending you - not my intention, I promise. I'm just trying to be straightforward here.