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    I'm not sure what is meant by this "nice guy" bollox really, as I have never categorized or think too much of such really regarding the lure of women. I don't even know if I fall into the "nice guy" cliche everyone is mentioning, but either way I have ended up with an amazing girl which I am currently engaged to. I do believe in the prospects of "alpha male" though, and I'm assuming that's what has driven me over the years. That being based on many things, my 10 odd years of body building, boxing, but most of all, personality. It just means I'm very dominant around other guys, I refuse to be a lesser, but that doesn't affect the way I treat my woman. That being said, treating women like shit is beneath me, and I don't see the point. If you do that, I'd think you will have an unhappy marriage in the end. My mum brought me up as a gentleman, and so I am to this day, and am the happiest I've ever been because of the relationship I'm in right now. Respect, love, trust, happiness, all those things come from mutual actions in my opinion- and treating women like bollocks won't earn you those benefits, for long anyway.

    I have seen couples ranging from my age, to about 3 years older (friends and strangers alike) with marriages/relationships without the mutual treatment of respect, and all I can say is that I would not want the outcome in my own. I have seen divorces, plain unhappiness, disrespect, "letting themselves go" as a result, cheating, and some of them are stuck with children to complicate things for them even more. Maybe the complications are beyond me, but I fail to see why they can't just try and make a bit more effort. Like I said before, I have been with my girl for 7 years now, and we're now engaged- but were still going 100% strong, and I won't let it change for anything, and I doubt it will for it's been 7 years already. We might as well be married already, because we've been living together for the last 5 years. I do not know much of such things really, but there are my 2 cents.
    Last edited by Gimaru; 12-05-2011 at 08:30 PM.

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