Quote Originally Posted by to0kenZA View Post
And the idea of having kids at this stage freaks me out like hell! I wouldn't mind having kids ONE DAY, but not now, heeeeeealll no!
Oh man then put off getting married for a while....I dont want children...neither does my wife...so we are comfortable in that decision. We both feel life has more to offer than bringing up kids for 20 odd years...so screw that.

But apparently that decision isn't ours to make. Since we got married we get bombarded with baby questions so damn frequently we've actually started messing with people as they get so damn snooty and pushy about a subject that actually has f-all to do with them.

So we tell them I've had an accident and cannot have children, that my wife has a threatening medical condition that will kill her if she falls pregnant etc....funny how quickly people stop asking then.

But you do get some real a-holes when it comes to this topic. We've had a lady once tell us we were selfish for not having to want kids. I am still trying to figure out how not procreating is selfish but anyway....

But on that topic we've spoken to people and friends on both side of the fence. Friends of ours recently had a boy. To them it's the most amazing "life altering" experience ever.

On the other side we've also met elderly people that never had kids. And to them it's the most amazing "life altering" experience ever, that none of them regret.