As for previous discussions... Girls do exist for nice guys. My girlfriend is one of these girls. She initially got with me to prove to everyone else that I wasn't gay. lol. I don't know what to think of that yet..... then she fell in love with me she says. So yeah, we have been together almost a year and had great fun along the way. Next year we will mutually split because I'm going to study and she is going to travel but we plan to meet up in the future. She was my first special real relationship and I thouroughly enjoyed my times with her over the last year.
By the way, going back to previous discussions... Is the pill for men available in SA yet? or the injection. that will be great. No horrible nasty condoms, 100% effective and you just need to get it done once every 3 months?! I just don't trust the pill for women.... me and my girl have had a few preggy scares to date :/