Quote Originally Posted by MrG View Post

Where should what responsibilities come into play. When should kids stop getting allowances, start earning their own money for parties, vehicles, petrol, medical aid, move out and such. When does (should) the parental assistance factor no longer play a role.

Keen to hear what is considered a defacto standard (or acceptable) and what is simply plain lazy.
I'd say from as early as legally possible. The sooner a youngster learns to work for his/her own cash, the better.

I have to say it isn't always as easy but at least it will teach them the reap-and-sow equation.

I have a family member who's 28 who has not worked in the last 2 years. Just leeches off the parents. It's plain off-putting.