Quote Originally Posted by to0kenZA View Post
@Kerby: I don't agree with your list. Especially not the part where you say 30+ should be having kids etc. What if people don't want kids? I'd definitely be out of the house by that time, but that's not to say I even want kids at that age, let alone be married by that time. You can't put out a set of rules for any one individual person to follow. We're all unique in the way we plan our life and our priorities. No offence to you at all my good man, with this next statement, but trying to sum up how someone should live their life is nothing but judging, in my opinion at least.
Let me explain my self a little and this is only my point of view ,
And this is personally in my own life and in no way reflects of what people have to do ,
I want to be married when im 30 , which I will be , Im getting married 1 month before I turn 30.
I want to be married for a few years before having kids ,
Now If I have kids when im 32 , my children will be 18 when im 50.
That , to me , is a good age for kids to be going to college / university as I will have a last few working years while im putting them through college and be done by the time they have left the house.

To me , its just a matter of how I see the timing done and in no way reflects what people "have" to do.

Its just what I am going to do.

Thats all