I don't think anyone's shown To0ken the secret handshake yet
But in all seriousness gamers are all sorts of normal people with normal lives and I think people in general are starting to realise that. It's just a hobby, not a definition of who you are. Add to that the fact that more and more people are getting into gaming, even if it's just cell phone games or farmville or something, gamers are not really seen as some strange subculture anymore. Of course there are some over the top hard-core types as well.