Considering you're open to taking random options from a gaming forum it sounds like you're making quite an impulsive decision here.
My personal recommendation, if you've seriously weighed up reasons other than "the crime sucks", is to work a short stint overseas in a potential new country to get a proper feel for it; no vague recommendation online is going to give you a true sense of a place, and everyone's preferences are different.
Also, I know more people who've left SA and come back because they were suckered by the whole "grass is greener" syndrome than I do expats who've remained overseas. I don't claim to know everything about your situation or just how fed up you really are, but pause for some serious thought before making a knee-jerk decision.





