Depends on culture too.
e.g. Ze Germans tend to go with a simple gold band for engage and then a proper ring for wedding. The first is more a declaration of intent so to speak...
No matter how you spin it its going to be expensive though
Depends on the girl...if she insists on diamonds then you're screwed. Do not pass go. Do not collect 20k. And pay 20k to the de beers cartel.
If she is willing to consider other stones then you should easily be OK.
>>or the actual wedding itself
Same...closest relatives aside they can all get lost for all I care. Might change my tune though...aka...might not have a choice





