An old thread maybe, but still a valid topic.

There is no question in my mind that any human contact, be it wife, girlfriend, family, or friends should trump gaming. And it's not just about sex. If the other person really cared about you, they would understand that you enjoy gaming and wouldn't mind if you played, BUT on the flip side of that coin, if you really cared about the other person, you would spend time with them over gaming. He/she can't expect you never to play, whilst you can't expect to only ever spend your free time gaming. And honestly, i don't see why it should such a dilema to choose.