Do you need to get laid?

Yep. His teachings do work wonders hey :P

Well I was a virgin until 22.. I'm 25 now and have had more woman than a normal person can in their life time these past 3 years :) I got fed up being a virgin. Always getting nowhere fast. Always being the guy chicks came crying to when they had boy issues.

So yeah. For me personally, any hint of being a nice guy will send a chick running. So I'm always an ass towards them.

virginity is a lie :D
 
virginity is a lie :D

I thought cake was lie o.O

Yep. His teachings do work wonders hey :P

Well I was a virgin until 22.. I'm 25 now and have had more woman than a normal person can in their life time these past 3 years :) I got fed up being a virgin. Always getting nowhere fast. Always being the guy chicks came crying to when they had boy issues.

So yeah. For me personally, any hint of being a nice guy will send a chick running. So I'm always an ass towards them.

So you wouldn't get involved with a friend for benefits. (i.e close friend)
 
So you wouldn't get involved with a friend for benefits. (i.e close friend)

Depends on how close they are. The ones I've known for say 5+ years I wouldn't, because I'd eventually end up hurting them and I wouldn't be able to do that (the ones I actually care about.) Plus they know what I'm about, so they will stay the fack away from me lol. The girls I've met in the last 6 months yes, I bounce between them. It's quite simple though.

You know how it goes. You go out with some friends. Bringing female friends is a plus because your target, will see you with females and will think "oh good, there's woman hanging around him, he can't be a total loser/creep etc." Do you thing and by the end of the night you bed them, you leave your number and if they phone you back, you know you are sorted. Once you've done that, you've established that next time (if you decide there to be a next time) you both know what the climax of the evening will be (pun intended :D). Don't ever phone a chick the next day. Sending the wrong signals.

After a year, I had a long list of who I could phone. There was no need to acquire new targets. Just go out and enjoy yourselves. Phone them and allow them to join you. They became friends, but the foundation was sex. You know you've achieved something great when you go home with 2 of em together and they cool with that.
 
Depends on how close they are. The ones I've known for say 5+ years I wouldn't, because I'd eventually end up hurting them and I wouldn't be able to do that (the ones I actually care about.) Plus they know what I'm about, so they will stay the fack away from me lol. The girls I've met in the last 6 months yes, I bounce between them. It's quite simple though.

You know how it goes. You go out with some friends. Bringing female friends is a plus because your target, will see you with females and will think "oh good, there's woman hanging around him, he can't be a total loser/creep etc." Do you thing and by the end of the night you bed them, you leave your number and if they phone you back, you know you are sorted. Once you've done that, you've established that next time (if you decide there to be a next time) you both know what the climax of the evening will be (pun intended :D). Don't ever phone a chick the next day. Sending the wrong signals.

After a year, I had a long list of who I could phone. There was no need to acquire new targets. Just go out and enjoy yourselves. Phone them and allow them to join you. They became friends, but the foundation was sex. You know you've achieved something great when you go home with 2 of em together and they cool with that.

And then you end up with a sexual decease. Nice.:rolleyes:
 
Condoms..

And buy in bulk. Saves on costs.

Ja sure. :rolleyes:

Is this even the forum for such a thread?
kinda tired of people talking about there f' ing love lives. Keep it to you bloody selves.:mad:
 
It's all interesting discussion... even though the thread was made in reference to weird and strange threads Boodles use to make on MyBroadband.

Wasn't being entirely serious.. but it became interesting with what Kuga had to say.

Its nice to read opinions, even when they do not entirely match up to your beliefs and ways.
 
Out of respect to the other members I'll stop talking about my private life. However, if you are in the situation that I was in a few years ago, do yourself a favour and get those books I mentioned earlier. They work. Trust me.

/end of derail?
 
I have to agree and disagree with the MM (Mystery Method). Mystery Method is basically the method that works when you're going to clubs/parties (i.e. won't work for daytime pickup) and works by subconciously chipping at a girl's self esteem through use of negs (backhanded compliments). This works extremely well on younger women, who have oodles of insecurities. The problem is with MM, while it's great for picking up younger women for sex, if you've got nothing outside of the lines and routines, it's going to backfire in the long run (i.e. an actual relationship). Also, they are rare, but there are confident women out there who don't fall for MM. There are many other schools of thought that work just as well without you having to be a dick, or having to fall back into nice guy/afc habits.

@Kuga No offence dude, but even knowing the power of MM on younger women, you must really want to live fast and die young. I hope you go for regular checkups. We live in South Africa where STDs are a far greater problem than America. Also, condoms don't prevent everything. Friend of mine had an HPV scare recently despite practicing safe sex.
 
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I don't have this problem..:) But have had waaay too many friends with benefits.. Luckily i've gotten out of that habit and have had the same girl for 19 months.. Waduup..:P (cyber five) :)
 
Kuga, it's not about being "the nice guy". It's about being yourself, and if they don't want it, then "their moer". If you can't find someone who likes you for who you are, has mutual respect and is willing to work on a relationship (and this goes both ways), then what's the point?

Totally agree +1 rep dude.
 
I mean what is the point if the person you want to be with has nothing in common or does not even know the real you?

Nothing!

If you can't be yourself in a relationship, then it's pointless. It will become an emotional liability, sooner or later and you will never benefit anything from it. It's totally worthless and it does more damage than it does any good.
 
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