I hope it was empty!?
Of was dit skop n sniff?
Well I know that alot of women Im not generalising here but they say that alot of women dont like kind gentle natured men they prefer hardass pp due to the specific reason of them being able to stand their ground should someone get in the way and fight for his girl etc.... whereas a gentle natured oke will sit back and bite the bullet and try not to do anything.... funny enough ive seen it in some of my friends... which I kinda looked at from 2 different views and ja funny enough some girlz like guys that act like real doos's and hardcore etc...![]()
No it's not! The pq is not always the first prize.Yep, I know.
That being the sad difference between the obligatory "nice guy" and the jock who gets the prom queen.
I've never been claimed by anything resembling your analogy of an alpha male.We worry about their feelings 1st, instead of claiming them as our own like the alpha male would.
What you say is very true - however it's not about being a doos that attacts a girl. They are attracted to self-confidence as much as Mappy is attracted to paaisâ„¢. Unfortunately, its the average jock doos who portrays self confidence more abundantly than others.
Now the kicker is... are you willing to change your habbits/morals/identity from what you are into what the girls seek just to get laid? Girls are not important enough for me to warrant changing how my parents raised me.
Just my 5c worth.
What you say is very true - however it's not about being a doos that attacts a girl. They are attracted to self-confidence as much as Mappy is attracted to paaisâ„¢. Unfortunately, its the average jock doos who portrays self confidence more abundantly than others.
Now the kicker is... are you willing to change your habbits/morals/identity from what you are into what the girls seek just to get laid? Girls are not important enough for me to warrant changing how my parents raised me.
Just my 5c worth.
Awww, voicy where were you 5 years ago? You seem to be the perfect guy....
I'm not a fighter, I'm a chilled layed back oke, had like 2 fights in my life , andI have a wonderfull girl. So being big and a fighter does not allways mean "security" in a woman's eyes.
A future, stable work and relationship, being able to provide, is more security than an oke that can gooi a karate punch.
My opinion on change.
If change needs to happen, then IMHO you dont belong together![]()
Thing is its not about changing ur morals and habits etc... its about showing the girl that you are willing to play hard to get too or you are up for a challenge in winning her over in the end... Thing is I used to be like that too the only thing that changed about me was the way I approach women I make it out to seem like im a jock type but then when they finally realise that im not all that bad then thats when you step in....
Like for example you crack a sexist joke and then just leave her hanging for a while becoz eventually shes gonna approach you about it and thats when you have broken the ice and said you were only kidding and start having a lekker chat 30min down the line she hands u her number and thats when the fun starts rolling in....
Give her a run for her money and make it worth her while.... obviously you dont have to be a doos but you make it look that way until they get to know you and then its a party all the way home
just my 10c![]()
Exactly what I was talking aboutAnd if they can't handle the joking etc you initially portray then they aren't worth being in a relationship with.
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*Mappies uses his powerful subject changing ability*![]()
Ola Guyz and Gurlz. I just had MCDonalds. MMMM
Hows ya'll doing?
@Mappy. How u been dude? Saw you where playing COD4 the other night. I actually got the most kills in my team saturday night in TDM on COD5. Also got 26 kills on another map, but also died 26 times. Had a blast.
ok ledies did i offend you in anyway that u girlz have now gone quiet