Don't worry I had a back ground check done on me but on this forum you have to earn respect and build a reputation.Once you have done that you learn to like people on the forum, People on this forum did one on me because I was simon's girlfriend the wanted to make sure sure that I was not a spammer.On most forums you get a lot of trolls and spammers and it makes it unpleasant for people like you and I who just want to start something new, I was also treated a bit wrong until simon sorted it all out.You just have ensure that you are not a spammer and join in with the chats.Do not get involved with any discussions based on religion race the ones that cause fights it so not worth.Have a warm friendly welcome from me look forward to many threads and posts from you.Don't give up yet. It is a nice forum. People just miss understood you.Welcome
Don't worry I had a back ground check done on me but on this forum you have to earn respect and build a reputation.Once you have done that you learn to like people on the forum, People on this forum did one on me because I was simon's girlfriend the wanted to make sure sure that I was not a spammer.On most forums you get a lot of trolls and spammers and it makes it unpleasant for people like you and I who just want to start something new, I was also treated a bit wrong until simon sorted it all out.You just have ensure that you are not a spammer and join in with the chats.Do not get involved with any discussions based on religion race the ones that cause fights it so not worth.Have a warm friendly welcome from me look forward to many threads and posts from you.Don't give up yet. It is a nice forum. People just miss understood you.Welcome
Women always give sound advice, 99% sound and 1% advice![]()
Always remember it is far easier to pull some one down then to lift someone up. Be careful that you do not get sucked into internet bullying
Women always give sound advice, 99% sound and 1% advice![]()
That said, in my opinion this forum has too many 'lololol', '+1', 'I agree' etc posts, even from established members. There's nothing wrong with agreeing with a post or expressing satisfaction or whatever, but at least add something worth reading with it. Three word posts are not posts, they're spam. Discussion is key to any forum, otherwise we might just have a 'Like' function on posts.
The point is, it's not hard to fit in on a forum. The people who are disliked from the get-go are those who are too lazy to make an effort. Don't post just to post, read your post twice before submitting it and ask yourself 'what does this add to the discussion' and 'how would I respond to this if it were someone else'. You'd be surprised what wonders a little thought and effort can do if you try to make a post. If people can see that you put a little thought into a post, they might not agree, but they probably won't respond harshly either. There's only so much tolerance for stupid to go around.
Responding to a month old thread with "That's disgusting" and having people react badly isn't you being misunderstood, it's you posting for the sake of posting simply because you couldn't be arsed to use your brain to think of something worthwhile to say.
That said, in my opinion this forum has too many 'lololol', '+1', 'I agree' etc posts, even from established members. There's nothing wrong with agreeing with a post or expressing satisfaction or whatever, but at least add something worth reading with it. Three word posts are not posts, they're spam. Discussion is key to any forum, otherwise we might just have a 'Like' function on posts.
"It's not who you are underneath but what you post that defines you."
Considering every single word is going a bit far, but you have to at least consider what a post adds to a topic. Going through 50 posts and having 43 of them be 'lololol' type posts can be rather frustrating.![]()
Where on mygaming have you seen 43 posts of lollolol
Where on mygaming have you seen 43 posts of lollolol