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I need advice from (not old) but the wise on tk. I was with a guy for 7 years and engaged for two. A few months ago I ended things. Long story short, he's just not getting over me. How do I get "rid" of him? Seriously I can't fight this fight anymore. Don't know how to make him understand. I've done everything I can and although I really love him, I can't be with him. Sorry I know this is not a date site but I need some serious help!!!!
 
Cara said:
I need advice from (not old) but the wise on tk. I was with a guy for 7 years and engaged for two. A few months ago I ended things. Long story short, he's just not getting over me. How do I get "rid" of him? Seriously I can't fight this fight anymore. Don't know how to make him understand. I've done everything I can and although I really love him, I can't be with him. Sorry I know this is not a date site but I need some serious help!!!!
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Not a topic for a Sunday ask Monday perhaps.

Plus we need to catch vamp seeing as he has stolen some stuff.
 
If you have done the nice route I'm afraid you will just have to be firm and let him know in a forceful manner that it has ended and you are moving on and he should too. Cut all contact with him as well - all.
 
Cara said:
I need advice from (not old) but the wise on tk. I was with a guy for 7 years and engaged for two. A few months ago I ended things. Long story short, he's just not getting over me. How do I get "rid" of him? Seriously I can't fight this fight anymore. Don't know how to make him understand. I've done everything I can and although I really love him, I can't be with him. Sorry I know this is not a date site but I need some serious help!!!!
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I used to be like that. Not getting over a chick, but I really cannot tell you what to do in your situation.
For now, I'll say: Do what feels right. If a nudge isn't enough, sometimes a push or shove is what's needed [read between the lines].
Crzwaco said:
Not a topic for a Sunday ask Monday perhaps.

Plus we need to catch vamp seeing as he has stolen some stuff.
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I didn't steal -- I borrowed, with no intention of bringing back or replacing.
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
If you have done the nice route I'm afraid you will just have to be firm and let him know in a forceful manner that it has ended and you are moving on and he should too. Cut all contact with him as well - all.
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I've done every fucking thing you can think of . He just shows up at my house or where ever I am. I've cried, yelled, beg, asked nicely. And he's just not getting the goddamn message. I didn't leave him because of another guy or anything and I think that's why it's so hard for him to get closure. I mean come in I'm 24 and he wanted to get married. Okay it all sounded good at first but I then realized I can't do it
 
I've gone the restraining order route before ...... seriously, if he doesn't get that it's not cool to basically stalk you, he needs to learn the hard way
 
Vampothic said:
I used to be like that. Not getting over a chick, but I really cannot tell you what to do in your situation.
For now, I'll say: Do what feels right. If a nudge isn't enough, sometimes a push or shove is what's needed [read between the lines].

I didn't steal -- I borrowed, with no intention of bringing back or replacing.
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Dankie Vamp! xxxxxx :)
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
I've gone the restraining order route before ...... seriously, if he doesn't get that it's not cool to basically stalk you, he needs to learn the hard way
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What sucks the most is that I have no support from my friends or family. They all think I'm making or mad a mistake. Fuck I'm just gonna get myself another guy so he'll get the message. Maybe that's what he needs.
 
Cara said:
I've done every fucking thing you can think of . He just shows up at my house or where ever I am. I've cried, yelled, beg, asked nicely. And he's just not getting the goddamn message. I didn't leave him because of another guy or anything and I think that's why it's so hard for him to get closure. I mean come in I'm 24 and he wanted to get married. Okay it all sounded good at first but I then realized I can't do it
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Given this day and age, people (youngsters) as young as 20 are getting married - but, this is usually as a result of premature pregnancy. A friend of mine at campus is now 19 or 20 and he's married with a kid.

That's just too early, IMHO.
 
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