http://www.reddit.com/r/Diablo3Monks/search?q=diablo+3+monks&sort=relevance&restrict_sr=on&t=all
Have read there, I am sure they will be able to help you out - the wizards guides helped me out a huge amount.
Not yet - I thought that is only starting later?
I was in a bit of a study and HotS haze yesterday
LOL the char I linked is my season char, she is over 220 paragon already - I can help you speed level a char from wednesday onwards in the evening after 8pm