just checked everywhere again, can't find it
On a 2meg. Line, my Son, Foster Son, and myself can do Teq in same instance - no issues.
Got an Asended Chest last night from Teq, Shaman Stats - would rather gotten Rabid ststs for my Mesmer, but Shamans will work on my healing Guard, tho not perfect.
Got in as Teq landed, run the Elf Family, was on Smurfy Elf last night my Mesmer.
Most likely, is you have ADSL line issues.