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Glordit said:
If you remember those. You are AWESOME!

I had about 20+ sets from various cars, bikes, trucks even trains.

So Just poured my heart out to someone and they still said no. :'(

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you have to be more sure dude , girls dont like to be with a guy more insecure than they are . hang in there
 
Glordit said:
So Just poured my heart out to someone and they still said no. :'(

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Seriously, if she doesn't even consider giving some sort of relationship a go after a message like this, there's something wrong. I read some of the replies and yes a woman wants a confident man, but every woman falls in love with a man who can get intouch with his soft/feminine side. Broken hearts can be mended, she's just not willing to give it a try. I know this sounds very cliche, but if you really feel something for this girl and maybe even love her, let her go. She'll come to you if she's ready and if its meant to be! Goodluck Glor. I know how hard and unfair life and love can be! :o
 
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Glordit said:
Edited/blacked out the name. Bracket was for a spelling difference her name has a a where as most people would spell it with a e. Make's it more dramatic.
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Fair enough. :) I was just curious.

This might just be me.. but if you felt like expressing yourself like that, a handwritten letter would be the medium of choice. Over text or email, sum it up to be short and sweet. (2 or 3 sentences at most). Almost to the point of "I like you and will take care not to hurt you. Would you like to go on a date with me?"
 
xGREAPER said:
Same happened to me here...
I feel you :(
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We'll get over it, eventually. Then some one awesome will come along and make us forget about all the heartache we went through. (at least I am not taking this type of thing as badly as I used to)

Venom said:
you have to be more sure dude , girls dont like to be with a guy more insecure than they are . hang in there
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To each his own. Way I see it some women like to hear the honest truth about what they are getting into, why lie when she will find out the hard way. Anyway thank-you, for the advice.

DieGrootH@mmer said:
Bad luck dude. Luckily there's a lot of fish in the see...here is some pics for you...
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Thanks, they will make me smile, if only for a while.

DCWarhound said:
Sorry to hear :(

You are being too soft,women want confident men that they can depend on.

I'm not saying you shouldn't try to comfort her when she is going through a tough time but generally taking a leap of faith with any girl is a big mistake.You need to get close to her,maybe take her out for lunch where she can discuss her problem personally with you in a relaxed environment.
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Did that. Multiple times.
I don't see anything wrong with being 'soft' I am just not a 'keep it to one word' kind of guy. It's hard explaining emotion to someone when you think they will fill that missing link in your life, and even harder to post it on the net.

Cara said:
Seriously, if she doesn't even consider giving some sort of relationship a go after a message like this, there's something wrong. I read some of the replies and yes a woman wants a confident man, but every woman falls in love with a man who can get in touch with his soft/feminine side. Broken hearts can be mended, she's just not willing to give it a try. I know this sounds very cliche, but if you really feel something for this girl and maybe even love her, let her go. She'll come to you if she's ready and if its meant to be! Goodluck Glor. I know how hard and unfair life and love can be! :o
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Nice guy was tossed around a lot, in her message. I know defeat when I read it. Thank-you so much for your advice. I really appreciate it.

foozball3000 said:
Fair enough. :) I was just curious.

This might just be me.. but if you felt like expressing yourself like that, a handwritten letter would be the medium of choice. Over text or email, sum it up to be short and sweet. (2 or 3 sentences at most). Almost to the point of "I like you and will take care not to hurt you. Would you like to go on a date with me?"
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I asked her many times to go out but her schedule was always full (realistically it was, but I somehow eventually worked out it was always convenient for her) I also had this feeling that she was playing me like a yo-yo, so I just took a chance, and well the rest is history.

Although I do appreciate what you all have said to me, thank you all so very much! I will take your sage advice and use it to better myself.

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Random pic - back on topic!

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The problem with something like that is that saying it through means of an email/text message cheapens it somewhat. It makes it seem like you're too scared/shy to say it in person. I had to learn that lesson the hard way, especially as I was very shy growing up.

Otherwise, it's rough when something like that happens. Wish you all the best, dude.

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Welp! We should probably get back to posting pics.

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Clive Woofer said:
The problem with something like that is that saying it through means of an email/text message cheapens it somewhat. It makes it seem like you're too scared/shy to say it in person. I had to learn that lesson the hard way, especially as I was very shy growing up.

Otherwise, it's rough when something like that happens. Wish you all the best, dude.

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Welp! We should probably get back to posting pics.

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Problem was I was trying for weeks to see her in person, had no luck.

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Glordit said:
So Just poured my heart out to someone and they still said no. :'(
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Hey man,

I will tell you straight up, your approach was the best way to reveal how you felt (just because I get the sense that it was just you being you). Why? Because you honestly (key word here) laid out both your situation along with hers, you filled her in on who you are (which she probably kind of knows) and what she'd be in for had she considered taking the plunge with you. This may be perceived as an approach lacking of confidence, but I don't necessarily agree with that assertion. IMO, you took a big step without knowing the end result, and that takes some courage. Your sincere approach is honestly the same way I deal with the same situations. I encourage you not to change it just because it's not the way other people would handle it (I'm not saying their different approaches are wrong in any way).

Truth be told, there is no perfect approach to getting someone to like you, simply because we're different people and we like different things, and we're attracted to different kinds of people, so the best approach is being YOU at all times. If you're a compassionate motherf**ker, be exactly that, if you're an empath, if you're charismatic, if you've got loads of confidence to spare, BE EXACTLY THAT, because for every personality, there are people who gravitate towards that personality (I shit you not :p).

Didn't intend to sound preachy or anything :o

Anyway back to the important topic at hand; random pictures :D

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