Here's my view, both consoles look like great pieces of tech from a technical point. Even the games that are lined up for both of them look exciting ( completely subjective to taste, I guess). So what would sway me one way or other? Probably the service provided by MS or Sony.
I actually get what MS is trying to do in terms of their progressive ambitions, but the once a day check, it bothers me for a few reasons, I don't have necessarily have unlimited access to the Internet, and from what I'm seeing this is far from isolated to just Saffers mind you, so in my case based on what the Xbox One is, if for one reason or not my Internet isn't avaliable for longer than a day (tends to happen even for those with robust Internet), it means I won't be able to use my Xbox at my discretion should I want to play my games.
And that's the thing, even places with proper Internet like your New Yorks have areas with the occasional outages and such (at least from what I've been reading). This is a significant chunk of people who now have a lot more things to factor in should they want an xbox.
I know a lot of people who tend to take their consoles along with them for trips or even just visiting a friend, etc. That place doesn't have Internet? No play. What about areas with coverage dead zones (even found in sub urban areas and some cities)? No play? Many more examples I can think of. I repeat this isn't just a Saffers problem.
Is the Xbox progressive and moving with the times? Yes most definitely, but this move alienates a chunk of consumers (may not be the core majority but a sizable chunk nonetheless IMO) who may have wanted an Xbox, but are deterred because of the the thought process they need to undergo to figure out if they'll be getting the most of their console at their discretion. If they'd steamed it, I would feel differently.
I recently posted an article by the Verge about the futures of both PS4 and Xbox One. The living room vs the cloud. Both different visions seemed exciting for different reasons. In any case I'm not taking anything from the the console, just mentioning why I think it may lose a bit of ground with some gamers and why I certainly can't support it if I make the jump to console.
Not the most articulate response since I think my point may have been lost somewhere . But that's my 2 cents for what it's worth.