Steps for Nerds to get a girl.

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powderbucket said:
Girl Gamer's Top Tip:

Find a nerdy girl gamer. You'll understand each other and respect the whole gaming culture.

P.S. Nerdy girl does not necessarily mean non-attractive girl. I am a nerd and I think I'm attractive :p
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Well I would not mind a Girl Gamer, Iv met a few and they are a quite amazing in their own unique way. Just wish there were a lot more.
 
Here's my tip.

Hide your gaming hobby, just flippin hide it. Only play when she is not around( which is surprisingly seldom ), do not even look at a gameshop or magazine etc. when walking past. After 6 months or marriage, which ever comes first, let the pent up gaming desire burst forth because you no longer give a damn about what she thinks and have several consecutive all nighters.

Worked for me. Thank the heavens.
 
SarahMonsta said:
Well ...

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Disclaimer: this is a joke!
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#1 pick up line: Excuse me, but does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

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* Ditto on the joke disclaimer
 
funny stuff... I have to say that having a girlfriend really does limit your gaming time a lot... But then again... I would rather have the girl than spend the whole weekend playing games...
 
This is some seriously funny stuff! But hey it is simple just find yourself a nerdy or gamer girl or one that has similar interests or hobbies that don't conflict with yours.
 
i never hid the fact that i was a gamer and it worked out alright :).

for years i had pretty much no luck but the occasional hook up then i realised that overthinking was the thing killing me.and a friend suggested i read this book "Neil Strauss - The Game Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists".and it let my overthinking be my strength instead of downfall..once id met a few girls and boosted my confidence i was ready to chat up girls just like the jocks,with a little difference...BRAINS.

once you are in your 20's girls forget who was in the 1st rugby team and start looking for intelligent conversations.and all my time spent studying that book and practicing a few of the techniques taught me how to be confident and start a good conversation and get the hottest girls in the club...yay nerdy dreams have been accomplished,right?but hold on im still bored with life and lacking true human companionship which is the ultimate goal,no?

so after that i started looking for a gf.tried a few times to start relationships with the barbies and all sorts of other stereotypes..once again failure...

then came my 21st bday and i decide to take a gap during exams to go out and have a drink with a mate just to cool off.and see some girls at a table against the wall of the pub..so knowing them and knowing my friend is a manwhore i wingmanned him.sat down at the table next to them with a guy and a girl just sitting there talking and having a quiet drink...while my friend was having his best moves blocked like a bad SC2 rush.i started talking to them and stuffing around.

eventually the girls left and my mate joined us and we all joked around till my mate had to leave.then her friend decided to go home because of work the next day.and we just started hitting it off...now almost 2 years down the line.ive moved in with her and she lets me have an hour of gaming a day when she goes and watches tv.and lets me go to the lans i want to..

so ultimately..these online guides will only ever give you self confidence.you need to learn how to talk to the girls on your own.but in the end, it'll happen in its own time.just never pass up an opportunity :).and be yourself otherwise the relationship is doomed from the start
 
hehe, you guys...make me worry ALOT! (and also happy I have a son!) :P :P

I've always frowned at the wording of "getting a girl". Sounds like you posses her or something. imho, its more like she chooses to be with you. In my case, I still wonder why my Queen wants to be with me!! :P :P Shouldn't question my luck too much!

Seriously though, perhaps I was just lucky but my wife knew I played games. If she wasn't going to accept me for it, tough. It hurts terribly when getting dumped but rather get it over and done with cause I get cranky when I dont loose some hours and sleep in a virtual world.

But, you do play less, more so when you have a child. BUUUT, they have added soooooooooooooooooo much to me. Its quite something to experience when my 2 year old son sat on my lap whilst I was playing BF3. I didn't show him too much violent stuff, drove a tank, flew a jet....he was glued to the screen and started pounding the keys...

On track though, I read this funny but true write up a few years back, was called some like "How to be a jerk and get a girl
 
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I don't like those dating guides: at best, they come across as manipulative.

Lately, I have tried just being spontaneous-within reason. Outside of work, I seldom encounter women with whom I am familiar though.
 
Your best bet is honestly just to meet people. Learn to start and hold conversations without reverting to dick jokes or internet memes and you'll be alright.
 
The closest thing ive come to a girl gamer is one who liked playing the angry birds and super mario..
 
Number one tip, and one that especially applies to "nerds": Girls are people. Stop seeing them as "girls", and accept that they're pretty much the same as you; same insecurities; same faults; same fears.

We're all looking for the same thing, so don't be afraid to show interest in a girl. It doesn't make you a "perv" if you smile at a girl you like, it doesn't make you weird. You're allowed to send signals, you're allowed to flirt, just don't expect it to always work. Be prepared to get turned down. Everyone has to go through that, and you're no exception. It's not because you're "different" or "broken" or "weird", it's just that you're probably not compatible with that person, and she doesn't want to waste her time or yours.

My 5¢.
 
Whisper said:
Number one tip, and one that especially applies to "nerds": Girls are people. Stop seeing them as "girls", and accept that they're pretty much the same as you; same insecurities; same faults; same fears.

We're all looking for the same thing, so don't be afraid to show interest in a girl. It doesn't make you a "perv" if you smile at a girl you like, it doesn't make you weird. You're allowed to send signals, you're allowed to flirt, just don't expect it to always work. Be prepared to get turned down. Everyone has to go through that, and you're no exception. It's not because you're "different" or "broken" or "weird", it's just that you're probably not compatible with that person, and she doesn't want to waste her time or yours.

My 5¢.
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It has taken me quite some time to draw the same conclusion.
 
Whisper said:
Number one tip, and one that especially applies to "nerds": Girls are people. Stop seeing them as "girls", and accept that they're pretty much the same as you; same insecurities; same faults; same fears.

We're all looking for the same thing, so don't be afraid to show interest in a girl. It doesn't make you a "perv" if you smile at a girl you like, it doesn't make you weird. You're allowed to send signals, you're allowed to flirt, just don't expect it to always work. Be prepared to get turned down. Everyone has to go through that, and you're no exception. It's not because you're "different" or "broken" or "weird", it's just that you're probably not compatible with that person, and she doesn't want to waste her time or yours.
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I'd also add that it's important to get over it and move on when it's obvious a woman isn't into you. And it IS obvious. Men make excuses about women sending "obscure signals", but dating other people and not dating you is not an obscure signal. Continuing to flirt and make passes at a woman who is clearly not interested in you is a one-way ticket to Creepville, Population: You.

Oh, AND. Just because a woman is into games and you're into games doesn't mean you're meant to be together forever. It takes more than just a single shared interest to maintain a meaningful relationship.
 
Also, you know that totally awesome theory that girls like guys who treat them poorly? It's a bullshit theory invented by morons. Morons are attracted to people who treat them poorly.

If you think you're continuously being turned down because you're a 'nice guy', maybe you're looking for relationships in the wrong place? I certainly don't want to date someone who likes their relationship partner to be an asshole.
 
Met an old school friend on Facebook again 3 years ago. HIGHLY attractive girl + favourite game is God of war.
Getting married in 4 weeks.

Here's to geek girls! :love:
 
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