This is why we can't have nice things...
I disagree James. I think things would not reach such boiling points if we all just chip in be more careful about how we conduct ourselves, not only in this forum but in the real world too.
When you do something that's wrong, and which clearly has an impact, own up quickly instead of letting it boil over into an uncontrollable scene like the one in the comments sections. For example, if a user see's his name being used in the comments section, instead of creating a scene about it, simply let it slide, I mean if that user has said something offensive under your username which does not represent how you are in the forums, just let it go instead of fighting it, and trust that the mods will delete it when they get to it.
Abusive comments are not tolerated there from what I've seen
That's just one example. I know the comments section is difficult to maintain due to the anonymous (lol) nature of it all, but if we don't try to fight it, it won't be a problem.
The other issue is the rep system. Neg repping someone because they said something you didn't like is no different from making a nasty comment in the articles because you're allowed to post a comment with the rep, and it causes a lot of animosity. If you're going to neg someone, it shouldn't be due to childish reasons like "You're an asshole."
Lastly, as implied by my first paragraph, simply take responsibility for your actions, if you do something, put yourself in the shoes of the other person and see whether you'd be offended or not if someone said that to you.
And thanks for everything you do James, I imagine it really must get frustrating sometimes.