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Wenzdayz said:
the context is its 2 singles girls he works with who are always inviting him for dinners etc(without me fyi)who went partying with and he went and picked them up at their houses and dropped them off plus he paid for their drinks after the function cause i saw over a thousand rands worth of drinks slips on the counter this morning...
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Ok, I think being mad is warranted in this case. What does he have to say for himself?
 
Saint_Dee said:
Ok, I think being mad is warranted in this case. What does he have to say for himself?
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uhm he was still passed out when i left for work this morning so i have not spoken to him yet... this is not the first time this has happened though and i have spoken to him about it before... he doesnt seem to listen
 
Wenzdayz said:
the context is its 2 singles girls he works with who are always inviting him for dinners etc(without me fyi)who went partying with and he went and picked them up at their houses and dropped them off plus he paid for their drinks after the function cause i saw over a thousand rands worth of drinks slips on the counter this morning...
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Hehehe...that's funny! (but I mean that in a nice way!) :D

Ok...so you can probably be a little pissed off at him then!
 
Wenzdayz said:
uhm he was still passed out when i left for work this morning so i have not spoken to him yet... this is not the first time this has happened though and i have spoken to him about it before... he doesnt seem to listen
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Ok....be a bit more than a little pissed at him then! ;)
 
Wenzdayz said:
the context is its 2 singles girls he works with who are always inviting him for dinners etc(without me fyi)who went partying with and he went and picked them up at their houses and dropped them off plus he paid for their drinks after the function cause i saw over a thousand rands worth of drinks slips on the counter this morning...
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....ok yeah, you should have hit him over the head with a stick before you left for work
 
Wenzdayz said:
and if the party finished at 9 already and he went on to go party with two single girls?
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Wenzdayz said:
the context is its 2 singles girls he works with who are always inviting him for dinners etc(without me fyi)who went partying with and he went and picked them up at their houses and dropped them off plus he paid for their drinks after the function cause i saw over a thousand rands worth of drinks slips on the counter this morning...
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Well since you put it that way, jeez you should have said that from the start... Hell it's in everyone's nature to become defensive and jealous which we can't blame you. I dunno I'm on two sides to this, I'm on his side because I would also wanna party until all hours if I was having a great time but I'm also on your side because I wouldn't want my Mrs going on a jol with some random okes that I didn't know and probably couldn't trust with.
 
InSanity said:
That part yes it is very unreasonable



Then i read this part was it a whole group including the 2 chicks or just him and the 2 chicks ?
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just them

eek said:
Hehehe...that's funny! (but I mean that in a nice way!) :D

Ok...so you can probably be a little pissed off at him then!
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ok so im not being unreasonable then... how do i convey this over to him without sounding like a mother repremanding a naughty child?

eek said:
Ok....be a bit more than a little pissed at him then! ;)
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sycogrim said:
Well since you put it that way, jeez you should have said that from the start... Hell it's in everyone's nature to become defensive and jealous which we can't blame you. I dunno I'm on two sides to this, I'm on his side because I would also wanna party until all hours if I was having a great time but I'm also on your side because I wouldn't want my Mrs going on a jol with some random okes that I didn't know and probably couldn't trust with.
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You forgot the 'paying for their drinks and spending over R1000'.
 
Wenzdayz said:
just them

ok so im not being unreasonable then... how do i convey this over to him without sounding like a mother repremanding a naughty child?
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I dunno....don't think there's much of another way of doing it. Fact of the matter is, he did it, you're not happy about it, and he did it after you've asked him not to do it on a previous occasion....so he probably deserves to be reprimanded like a child...because he's not made good on a previous request
 
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Wenzie, good luck with that.

I wish I could help with it. I tend to become a bit irrational when I hear those kind of stories. Since I went out the with guy who did that and to much more with the "girls" from the office, and various other friends.

I would have klapped him
 
sycogrim said:
Well since you put it that way, jeez you should have said that from the start... Hell it's in everyone's nature to become defensive and jealous which we can't blame you. I dunno I'm on two sides to this, I'm on his side because I would also wanna party until all hours if I was having a great time but I'm also on your side because I wouldn't want my Mrs going on a jol with some random okes that I didn't know and probably couldn't trust with.
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look im all for going out and partying cause he works hard but i mean really. these chicks are just using him and he doesnt see that its a problem. we have had this argument more than once and im quite frankly getting sick of it cause every time he is sorry cause he didnt think and promises to try not to do it again...

/rant over

let me not rant about this anymore cause it makes my blood boil. thanks for listening
 
ok well personally Wenz if i did that i would be castrated the second i got home no questions asked... I mean the fact that he went to go pick them up and drive them around is dodge on the other flip of the coin maybe it was purely he jsut wanted to have fun and meant no intentional harm... either way i beg fo you dotn be off at him and when he asks whats wrogn reply with nothing :D jsut talk about it i hate the womens Nothings wrogn dagger eyes line :D
 
Wenzdayz said:
look im all for going out and partying cause he works hard but i mean really. these chicks are just using him and he doesnt see that its a problem. we have had this argument more than once and im quite frankly getting sick of it cause every time he is sorry cause he didnt think and promises to try not to do it again...

/rant over

let me not rant about this anymore cause it makes my blood boil. thanks for listening
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Just ask him not to socialize with them, since you don't feel comfortable with them hanging out with someone whos taken. Play the table right, don't make him feel like the complete enemy and tell him yes you're all up for going on jol's etc... but ask nicely if he will please not hang around them. :)
 
InSanity said:
ok well personally Wenz if i did that i would be castrated the second i got home no questions asked... I mean the fact that he went to go pick them up and drive them around is dodge on the other flip of the coin maybe it was purely he jsut wanted to have fun and meant no intentional harm... either way i beg fo you dotn be off at him and when he asks whats wrogn reply with nothing :D jsut talk about it i hate the womens Nothings wrogn dagger eyes line :D
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lol i dont do the "nothings wrong dagger eyes line" i tend to go for the "dont touch me and dont talk to me i am mad at you so leave me alone and im not talking to you" and then 2 days later i will be over my sycorageanger
 
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