Hagan
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What sucks the most is that I have no support from my friends or family. They all think I'm making or mad a mistake. Fuck I'm just gonna get myself another guy so he'll get the message. Maybe that's what he needs.
All this for him to get the message? A little drastic, no?
Given that it looks like you guys are still in communication - why don't you try ending any and all communicable ways/options.
Shouldn't that be problem-solving enough?
You may end up getting into another situation where the "replacement" will be just as he is -- unless of course, there is someone you like, and are going to "use" him for the purpose of getting your ex off your back for good...