What makes you Attractive

I have been told, by my colleagues - that I'm not approachable at all. LOL. The problem is, I only come across as unapproachable to people who are completely ignorant and clueless. I'm a VERY straight person and I do not hide my thoughts that well. The upside is that you will always know where you stand with me and I do not put on fake smiles. The downside is that I scare away small children and morons. Which, to me isn't such a bad thing at all.
 
Meh I have been told I am attractive its my shyness that puts the woman off me
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Nah dude, that's a BS excuse that women give. I'm a very extrovert kind of person. I don't care what others think about me, so my personality is very outgoing. And apparently women find that very off-putting in a man as well. So to be honest, their opinions are subjective at best.
 
Neo said:
Nah dude, that's a BS excuse that women give. I'm a very extrovert kind of person. I don't care what others think about me, so my personality is very outgoing. And apparently women find that very off-putting in a man as well. So to be honest, their opinions are subjective at best.
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Have to agree with you there.
 
Tsar said:
Yeah being approachable is a good quality. Mine has to be my height,my eyes, soon my body with all the training I am doing for the royal marines. My hands apparently oh and my voice. Also I have a good personality and I tend to cheer people up when they are down.
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#RoyalMarines :D

I would have to say my height and I guess my self-confidence.
 
Neo said:
Nah dude, that's a BS excuse that women give. I'm a very extrovert kind of person. I don't care what others think about me, so my personality is very outgoing. And apparently women find that very off-putting in a man as well. So to be honest, their opinions are subjective at best.
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Are you outgoing or is your personality outgoing? Because if you yourself is outgoing then it probably means you are confident which women find very attractive so if you think that's off putting then you are wrong. But Keanu is not a bad looking man.
 
Well i think what makes people like me is my sense of style and the fact that i'm tall and well built, i'm funny and that i'm a listener (I have been Called DR.Phil on many occasions)
 
Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. I read that when you see yourself in the mirror, your brain makes you think that you are more attractive than you actually are. Scary.

Something might be really attractive to you, which others might consider average.
 
TheAvenged87 said:
Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. I read that when you see yourself in the mirror, your brain makes you think that you are more attractive than you actually are. Scary.

Something might be really attractive to you, which others might consider average.
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And fat. You also look fatter to yourself than you actually are.
 
Wait, narcissists love themselves, so they won't be critical of themselves, they have the opposite of how people see the worst in themselves.
 
I don't really believe that attractiveness is something you can classify so easily. One person finds you attractive when another one finds you funny looking. Emotion also plays a major part in what you find attractive, something you might not have noticed at first becomes attractive when you have a feeling towards it.

My better qualities are:
My compassion
Foresight

The meat suit I am in is just something to get me to the end of the line. I do take care of it however, workouts, sports and a healthy lifestyle.
 
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