She will prob be back in a few months. Or not. Anyways, I felt the same, an unfriendly atmosphere towards me/other new users.. Right now I'm taking a peek in through the 'keyhole' to decide whether I should have made my absence more permanent and run for my life or to enter again and give it another go. And finding posts like these, months later, of today's new users who 'feel' the same way, its either the new user that fabricates the situation whether knowingly or unknowingly or there are certain people in the community that target newcomers.
Heed what I said above, or not. Try to find truth in it, if any or detest it. I'm by no means a new guy anymore, but memories are memories and serves for experiences of the past.
O well, it's a forum's curse then to have like 1000000000000000000000 members and 10 active users. *shrugs*.
I wonder if it has anything to do with the 10 active users?
/sarcasm
Oh, and a side note(fact? opinion?) Labels on communities is determined by those that shout the loudest.
Side note 2: I was thinking to myself that I won't side with the outcasted, incase I get labelled one, that I'm probably seen as one anyway, and even if I'm not... I'm willing to extend my hand, co-operate, since building bridges needs people on both sides of the river. I think you have an idea of who I'm talking about.
Not so new anymore, but if you havn't done the research yourself, here it is: After his first post, someone owns up to being the original etc. Lets leave that sleeping dog alone.
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However an outright accusation is made against said new person
Not going to name names/point fingers because I'm trying to mediate this situation.
New person denies it. Since there are no grounds for the accusation, the only proof lies with IP's that mods can view.. Some normal discussion between new guy and golden oldie. (new guy 3rd post)
Possibly the start of the trouble 4th post:
4th post: Start of trouble new guy calls the quote a case of trolling. Moving on, not being so indepth. His 8th post was an apology.
Hang on, I can't even remember what point I was making. This is wasting invaluable time. :Back to studies:
Oh. a conlcusion for those that made it to here, it seems the new guy is trying to mend a broken honour. His honour is in his popularity with the group, so naturally he will fight for it. In some of the latest in the situation, he had a post arguing for himself, and that was labelled trolling. Read the below. Bye-Bye
Troll definition:
http://netforbeginners.about.com/od/t/f/what_is_a_troll.htm
The above definition though doesn't allow space for arguing, which would be too fine a line to draw and then distinguish. So here is another:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_%28Internet%29