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MalicE said:
it's...... beautiful......

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Malice - agreed! Gimme!

Wenzdayz said:
g'day good people of the TK
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Hai hai Wenzie - FAC is n blerry nagmerrie! Ma die Tax is net so erg :S

Hagan said:
Once again, I dream I have a girlfriend :)
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Hagan - the fact is simple stop obsessing about getting a girl. It will happen when it happens, the more you stress about it the bigger the chances are you will end up in a miserable, hopeless situation plus desperation starts radiating from you and that is VERY unappealing.
 
Wyvern said:
Malice - agreed! Gimme!


Hai hai Wenzie - FAC is n blerry nagmerrie! Ma die Tax is net so erg :S


Hagan - the fact is simple stop obsessing about getting a girl. It will happen when it happens, the more you stress about it the bigger the chances are you will end up in a miserable, hopeless situation plus desperation starts radiating from you and that is VERY unappealing.
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Wow! But Vern, I don't obsess about it. I sometimes make mention of a cute girl I've seen. Perhaps it is subconscious, but consciously - I do not obsess.
 
Its something you will have to work on hun, if you look back at the convo's you have had with most of us, what is the main topic been?


Sorry for being so blunt, but its honesty you require, maybe this time it will sink in? You can ask the others Im just as honest irl with them. I know being alone sucks, but you need to learn to be comfortable in your own company, once you get that right, you will be surprised. Its a lesson we all have to learn at some point. But then again who am I to speak, I run away from relationships - except for when I know there is no chance of a relationship besides friendship. But that is a choice I made, I just dont have that in me to go thru the crap again. I prefer being single, that way I am responsible for my own feelings.
 
Wyvern said:
Its something you will have to work on hun, if you look back at the convo's you have had with most of us, what is the main topic been?


Sorry for being so blunt, but its honesty you require, maybe this time it will sink in? You can ask the others Im just as honest irl with them. I know being alone sucks, but you need to learn to be comfortable in your own company, once you get that right, you will be surprised. Its a lesson we all have to learn at some point. But then again who am I to speak, I run away from relationships - except for when I know there is no chance of a relationship besides friendship. But that is a choice I made, I just dont have that in me to go thru the crap again. I prefer being single, that way I am responsible for my own feelings.
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I take into account what you say, and agree.

I typically sit in my room and mind my own goddamn business most of the time - it's my comfort zone.

I do not want to force myself into a relationship just for the sake of telling people "I've got a girlfriend" - fuck no.

It'd have to happen naturally, or not at all.
 
There is not trick to "not be single", however you need to get out. Get a hobby/recreational activity that takes place outside of your place of residence. That is the only way to meet new and interesting people. I'm not saying that you must just do something to pick up people, do something you actually enjoy, the main thing is to do it with other people. Secondly, stop giving a crap what other people say or think of you, you need to be comfortable with who and what you are without being with someone else or shaping yourself to become what other people want you to become. The only opinion that really matters is your own, however always do the "can I live with myself if I make this decision" type of approach, and follow it up with a "will I be ok with my decision in 5, 10, 15, etc years".

Now that you have met new and potentially crazy people (I'm a loony female magnet myself), start hanging out. Don't go out to get or be in a relationship, just hang out. Watch movies, play games, go do something, have parties, have sleepovers and have fun. Then start weeding out the crazies, the loonies and the generally unstable people you might have met. Make a move, deal with the rejection, make another move, etc etc. Eventually something happens, just dont run around so desperate for a relationship that you start "dating" after meeting a person once or twice as that will almost always end up in heartache.

So stop dreaming and start doing.
 
PsychoFish said:
There is not trick to "not be single", however you need to get out. Get a hobby/recreational activity that takes place outside of your place of residence. That is the only way to meet new and interesting people. I'm not saying that you must just do something to pick up people, do something you actually enjoy, the main thing is to do it with other people. Secondly, stop giving a crap what other people say or think of you, you need to be comfortable with who and what you are without being with someone else or shaping yourself to become what other people want you to become. The only opinion that really matters is your own, however always do the "can I live with myself if I make this decision" type of approach, and follow it up with a "will I be ok with my decision in 5, 10, 15, etc years".

Now that you have met new and potentially crazy people (I'm a loony female magnet myself), start hanging out. Don't go out to get or be in a relationship, just hang out. Watch movies, play games, go do something, have parties, have sleepovers and have fun. Then start weeding out the crazies, the loonies and the generally unstable people you might have met. Make a move, deal with the rejection, make another move, etc etc. Eventually something happens, just dont run around so desperate for a relationship that you start "dating" after meeting a person once or twice as that will almost always end up in heartache.

So stop dreaming and start doing.
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What He said!

As well as keep an eye out some of us crazies are truly amazing people who gives a damn about people we know.

Good for you, but remember to go as well you can't meet girls when you don't try to see them as people/friends first and in real life. Believe it or not even socially challenged gamer girls (yes they do exist) are not hanging out here expecting to be whisked off their feet just because you drool on them over the internet. Also the aforementioned socially challenged gamer girls are real live people who expect to be treated as such

So just keep that in mind and you will do well.
 
Wyvern said:
As well as keep an eye out some of us crazies are truly amazing people who gives a damn about people we know.
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I meant bunny boiler crazy (google it), not the regular run of the mill off the wall loony types. Stay away from bunny boiler crazy types, it will save you a lot of trouble.
 
PsychoFish said:
I meant bunny boiler crazy (google it), not the regular run of the mill off the wall loony types. Stay away from bunny boiler crazy types, it will save you a lot of trouble.
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Hehehe I know - trust me the tv shows don't lie - the men or women who have crazy eyes needs to be avoided at all costs.
 
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