Do you need to get laid?

Densweep - now Im wondering what your nick on IRC used to be :P I used to chat there as well.

But +1 Nicely said
 
Another problem many make and I'm guilty of it myself is not always working on your relationship. In the beginning it is easy to be all cuddly and lovey dovey, but as with everything in life, the novelty wears off and eventually you get stuck in a routine and just accept that he/she will always be there. Not so my friend. You need to work hard at maintaining that spark. Sometimes for no reason, like on the 9th of July( random day with no special meaning), have a bunch of roses sent to her office with a card. 98.7% of women will love it, especially if she works with other women. Trust me. Or when she comes home next week Wednesday, beat her home, clean the place and have dinner cooking. Arrange a weekend away in an remote little spot and whisk her away for just you time, especially important if you have kids.

Ladies, surprise him with his favourite sexual fantasy, yes, we are that simple. Take him out to his favourite restaurant and thereafter to watch the newest action flick and pretend to love it. Spoil him with that new gadget he so badly wants.

Basically, know your partner and spoil them. Work at it and don't stop working at it.
 
Wyvern said:
Densweep - now Im wondering what your nick on IRC used to be :P I used to chat there as well.

But +1 Nicely said
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This was almost ten years ago hey. Used to be on the #trivia channel a lot as well. The main reason why it worked out so well was that we started chatting online. After a while I eventually got her number and called her. We ended up calling each other almost every day for about 6 months and shared everything. It was extremely liberating, especially as I never thought we would actually meet. I was living in Cape Town at the time and she in Pretoria. Well, I came to visit after some long deliberations. Was here a week and went home, resigned, sold some shit for cash, moved out the house and have never looked back. Best decision I ever made.

PaPaRaZZ! said:
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Hahahahahahaha!
 
DenSweep

resident sex therapist for mygaming readers :D

seriously dude, im gonna def use this advice for my upcoming future!

DenSweep you are awesome! :D
 
Hahaha. Um, thanks.

You did catch that I'm married right?
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its hard to believe since ur pooning me in BFC2 :D

but apparently so :)

Still, imagine all the +1 reps u shall recieve

PS i dont need any of that stuff but okes like Raven have alot to tell u :D
 
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I get home from work and this thread has exploded. Wtf. =/


to0kenZA said:
Kuga, it's not about being "the nice guy". It's about being yourself, and if they don't want it, then "their moer". If you can't find someone who likes you for who you are, has mutual respect and is willing to work on a relationship (and this goes both ways), then what's the point?
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Being a nice guy will generally lead to a man child that is clingy and has no backbone.

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Toxin said:
It's all fine and well to say that Syco, especially when you guys are still in your mid twenties, but at some stage a "nice guy" has to put his foot down. Shit dude! I'm turning 30 this year........ 30......... and what do I have to show for it? Three relationships in the last four years where I'm the one that gets screwed over and taken advantage of because I'm the "nice guy".

You, Tinman, Wenz and Grimmy..... you guys have met me. You guys know what I'm like. What did I do to deserve that?

Well you know what? Fuck that shit..... up the ass. Why stick with being someone good and treating people well if it's just gonna make them take advantage of you the whole fucking time?

I've been the "nice guy" for nearly 30 years....... time to move on.

@Kuga, I'll be checking out those reads.
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I'm glad you making the right choice man. Read it. Put it into practice.

MissM said:
Well said Took. There are a real shortage of genuine nice guys out there.

@Kuga. Believe it or not, there are actually girls that like nice guys :)
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No there aren't. I've even done "tests" while out with my mates. First test I'd act like a nice guy, buying them drinks, try and strike up a conversation. Didn't work.

Second test I do my routine and I bag a chick. When you first meet a woman, you have 30 seconds to make a good first impression. Woman are ruled by their hearts. Their hearts are led by attraction. If a guy knows how to attract a girl, he will get further than someone that doesn't wtf he is doing.

A girl will say to her friends, "you know, so and so is a nice guy, I SHOULD be with him, but I'm not attracted to him." Then someone like me will come along and rip her a new one. She wouldn't expect it. She would be f*****ing me while the nice guy showers her with gifts and uses him while not giving him anything.

Nice guys think they can buy a girls affection. Doesn't work.

Wyvern said:
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Dont blame all women, guys are just as guilty of abusing the nice girls.
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Guilty as charged. And thus is the circle of life. Me as a nice guy few years back, got decimated by bitches. I then became an ass myself. I then abused nice girls. Now that nice girl will become a bitch and fuck over some other nice guy in the future, who in turn will fuck over a nice girl etc etc etc.

Wyvern said:
Give me a decent, polite, caring, fun guy..
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I.e. a guy that will be your doormat?

Relationships are a funny thing. Past experience has made me what I am today. If by some divine intervention I actually meet my soul mate, I would probably change back to what I was. Heh. Time will tell.
 
Kuga said:
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I get home from work and this thread has exploded. Wtf. =/




Being a nice guy will generally lead to a man child that is clingy and has no backbone.

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I'm glad you making the right choice man. Read it. Put it into practice.



No there aren't. I've even done "tests" while out with my mates. First test I'd act like a nice guy, buying them drinks, try and strike up a conversation. Didn't work.

Second test I do my routine and I bag a chick. When you first meet a woman, you have 30 seconds to make a good first impression. Woman are ruled by their hearts. Their hearts are led by attraction. If a guy knows how to attract a girl, he will get further than someone that doesn't wtf he is doing.

A girl will say to her friends, "you know, so and so is a nice guy, I SHOULD be with him, but I'm not attracted to him." Then someone like me will come along and rip her a new one. She wouldn't expect it. She would be f*****ing me while the nice guy showers her with gifts and uses him while not giving him anything.

Nice guys think they can buy a girls affection. Doesn't work.



Guilty as charged. And thus is the circle of life. Me as a nice guy few years back, got decimated by bitches. I then became an ass myself. I then abused nice girls. Now that nice girl will become a bitch and fuck over some other nice guy in the future, who in turn will fuck over a nice girl etc etc etc.



I.e. a guy that will be your doormat?

Relationships are a funny thing. Past experience has made me what I am today. If by some divine intervention I actually meet my soul mate, I would probably change back to what I was. Heh. Time will tell.
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I've think the variant of nice guy you have there isn't the one I was thinking about, clearly.
 
@kugaDude you are the type of oke that I cannot stand. Seeing a woman as a piece of meat is pathetic.
And no I am not the type of guy that would go yes ma'm and just let her walk all over me.
 
to0kenZA said:
I've think the variant of nice guy you have there isn't the one I was thinking about, clearly.
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Clearly not.

Tsar said:
@kugaDude you are the type of oke that I cannot stand. Seeing a woman as a piece of meat is pathetic.
And no I am not the type of guy that would go yes ma'm and just let her walk all over me.
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Well when you've been what I've been through, it changes you. During high school I was in a long ass relationship that never got me anywhere. Bitch cheated on me. Ever seen Bowling for Columbine? I was in that state of mind for a long time. I'm a hunter, woman are my prey. That was how it was back in the day.
 
afaik the nice-guy chicks don't just normally hangout in "just" a bar, but the non-nice guys ones do ;)
 
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Clearly not.



Well when you've been what I've been through, it changes you. During high school I was in a long ass relationship that never got me anywhere. Bitch cheated on me. Ever seen Bowling for Columbine? I was in that state of mind for a long time. I'm a hunter, woman are my prey. That was how it was back in the day.
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Dude you where in highschool:rolleyes: What do you expect. Grow up dude.
I was picked on by woman in highschool. I don't hate all woman for that.
 
I'd be curious to know how men actually met their current long/good/married partners in a bar.

I've met mine at highschool...
 
Kuga, I may be wrong, but one day dude, you will reach the ages of between 30-40 and most, if not all your mates will be married or in serious, caring relationships and you are going to suddenly realise how lonely your life is. You remind of the character David Spade plays in Rules of Engagement.
 
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