Do you need to get laid?

OWIE dude ...

I did say it was gonna come back to bite you in the ass eventually, but I was expecting it further down the line - and I wasn't thinking in terms of babies

Kuga said:
You may be right. Pretty sure I'm not gonna mess around for a while now. And thanks.
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Next 18 - 20 years? :p

Well, if it turns out to be yours and you take full responsibility for it, you've got my respect. I can only wish you the best ;)
 
gluck kuga, that's quite the bombshell when not prepared.
But everything works out in the end so hang in there, there will always be ppl around to help.
do that test if you 'think' you are the father... be sure.
 
Well, just be sure nobody tries to force you into marrying the girl simply because it's your child. You can't really marry someone because of that. It's not fair towards either of the two people in the marriage, and least of all not the child. If you don't have feelings for the girl, pay the fees, and go on with life.
 
Graal said:
Well, just be sure nobody tries to force you into marrying the girl simply because it's your child. You can't really marry someone because of that. It's not fair towards either of the two people in the marriage, and least of all not the child. If you don't have feelings for the girl, pay the fees, and go on with life.
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What a heartless reply. no-one wants to be just paid off as fees to be left because of getting on with life- basically what your are saying, right ? He has a responsibility towards the child and actually be there without just pushing over the dosh even if it means not marriage, but presence in the child's life at least. As jy pomp is jy oud genoeg om groot ook te maak.
 
Yeah, sorry Graal, but I'm in full agreement with Proph here.

It's too easy these days to just dump an unwanted child with the other parent and just pay the money from the distance - have you actually considered the effect that would have on a kid? Knowing he/she is unwanted? You should maybe think about it - I've got first-hand experience since I have an example of such a case within my immediate family.

Every action has a consequence. Every adult should be prepared to take responsibility for their actions. FULL responsibility. Even if marriage isn't involved the father and mother both have a role to play in ensuring that kid has a balanced upbringing.

It's offhand attitudes like the one you just displayed that's mostly responsible for the way kids are these days.
 
Kuga, as Duke said, I really don't want to be a douche, but this is one of those classic moments where I say "told ya so!". Lol

Anyhow, with the douche comment out of the way, best of luck, really dude. I hope it goes well for you, it's not going to be an easy task bringing up a child. I hope you started saving for the times ahead! :D
 
LOL Tooken, with you on that.

but....

It takes 2 to Tango, so both of them should do their utter best in being parents when the baby comes.
 
Kuga said:
So like...

Karma sucks n all.

Got a phone call and one of them is pregnant.. FML.

Don't play in the rain without a rain coat.
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bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha... Sorry dude I seriously don't mean to laugh so hard, but when I said out loud the one day for us to all go and get fscked and have a good shag, I didn't mean it literally. But regardless, I guess on the other hand we can also congratulate you because it's the best feeling for a guy to have a kid :)
 
PaPaRaZZ! said:
LOL Tooken, with you on that.

but....

It takes 2 to Tango, so both of them should do their utter best in being parents when the baby comes.
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Yes of course dude, it's going to take a while for it to sink in how important a new life is, but it's a huge responsibility and both parties should be involved without a doubt.

sycogrim said:
bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha... Sorry dude I seriously don't mean to laugh so hard, but when I said out loud the one day for us to all go and get fscked and have a good shag, I didn't mean it literally. But regardless, I guess on the other hand we can also congratulate you because it's the best feeling for a guy to have a kid :)
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Yeah, I bet it's the best feeling when it's planned. Otherwise, not so much. :D
 
to0kenZA said:
Yes of course dude, it's going to take a while for it to sink in how important a new life is, but it's a huge responsibility and both parties should be involved without a doubt.



Yeah, I bet it's the best feeling when it's planned. Otherwise, not so much. :D
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Hey well I said to myself that I wouldn't have a kid before I'm 25 so I'm definitely feeling great whether or not I have a kid planned or unplanned at this point :)
 
sycogrim said:
Hey well I said to myself that I wouldn't have a kid before I'm 25 so I'm definitely feeling great whether or not I have a kid planned or unplanned at this point :)
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I think I will leave that for when I'm at least 30. And hopefully by then I will have met a woman. Preferably, one that's not cheap and sleeps around with anyone. For all those players out there, remember how you treat your women, because they might just end up being someone else's wife one day.

Now we know that at least there's one to keep away from. She's got a kid on her hands.
 
to0kenZA said:
I think I will leave that for when I'm at least 30. And hopefully by then I will have met a woman. Preferably, one that's not cheap and sleeps around with anyone. For all those players out there, remember how you treat your women, because they might just end up being someone else's wife one day.

Now we know that at least there's one to keep away from. She's got a kid on her hands.
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Well for some women it has to be quiet an eye opener when they realize what they are missing when it's suddenly gone aka my ex who is wanting to come back :rolleyes: *sigh* and they say we never learn...
 
C-Bear said:
Oh I did... and believe me, I think this is the best thing that could happen to him (or to anyone for that matter). He'll, hopefully, mature because of this and move on from the lifestyle he is currently leading :). I also hope his baby is a girl - he'll learn to respect women more :D.

BTW, Kuga: I'm sure you feel very overwhelmed and worried right now but you'll be okay.
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That actually makes sense... Okay forgive I was wrong :).
 
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