Do you need to get laid?

I've been called that from time to time. Kuga himself called it Karma. I'll be the first guy to buy him a cigar for launch day, but you have to admit the irony is rather prevailing.

Having a kid is srsbsnz and I won't make jokes about that - My apologies if you were offended, Kuga :o
 
Voicy said:
I've been called that from time to time. Kuga himself called it Karma. I'll be the first guy to buy him a cigar for launch day, but you have to admit the irony is rather prevailing.

Having a kid is srsbsnz and I won't make jokes about that - My apologies if you were offended, Kuga :o
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The irony, yes.

But sure, it is srsbsnz, as you say- vrrsrsbsnz.
 
Bwahahahahahahahahahahaha.

I'm sorry, but I can't help but feel that this is Karma's way of some justice. And yes, I'm probably being a doos here and yes, I do wish you all the best and hope that whatever decision you make, you can live by it, but I can't help but derive just a tiny bit of satisfaction. I know I don't know Kuga personally and his life and situations have absolutely no bearing on my life, but, well, I kinda think he deserved this one. Flame me if you will, but I'm pretty sure some others feel the same of similarly.

That being said, if you guys decide to have the child, be involved in his/her life. DO NOT just pay over money and expect the mother to raise the child alone. It's not fair on her or the child. Even if you and the mother have nothing else in common, the child deserves a father and a male presence in his/her life. If you decide to not have the kid, think about that one, because it might seem like a "get out of jail" card" at the time, but could bother you for a long time to come. Then there is adoption, but I would really ask that you consider this carefully as well, as then the poor child has no "real" parents. To some kids this is never an issue and to others it bothers them forever, never mind how the parents feel a couple of years down the line. And remember, once given up, you have ZERO recourse to find your child. Only the child may request to make contact.

Whatever else may come and be, hopefully you at least learn that women are more than just pieces of meat to satisfy your urges.

Good luck mate.
 
DenSweeP said:
If you decide to not have the kid
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I realise that this is a sensitive (read: explosive) topic. Neverthless, the kid already exists. He already has a baby. Can't be undone. There's nothing about passing through the birth canal that suddenly makes you a baby. He/she already is a person.

There are some amazing pics out there unborn babies. See www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthpi...g-in-the-womb-by-Lennart-Nilsson.html?image=1

or

http://www.physiciansforlife.org/content/view/466/43/ See baby at 4 weeks, especially.

I hope I don't come across as attacking you, Densweep. Not my intention.
 
Pr⊕phet said:
What a heartless reply. no-one wants to be just paid off as fees to be left because of getting on with life- basically what your are saying, right ? He has a responsibility towards the child and actually be there without just pushing over the dosh even if it means not marriage, but presence in the child's life at least. As jy pomp is jy oud genoeg om groot ook te maak.
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shadowfox said:
Yeah, sorry Graal, but I'm in full agreement with Proph here.

It's too easy these days to just dump an unwanted child with the other parent and just pay the money from the distance - have you actually considered the effect that would have on a kid? Knowing he/she is unwanted? You should maybe think about it - I've got first-hand experience since I have an example of such a case within my immediate family.
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Woah woah woah. I didn't imply he should just abandon the child. I merely said he shouldn't marry her if he doesn't have feelings for her. It's better if the kid has a father he/she only sees once in a while, rather than beeing able to see the father each day, but having the parents fight daily because they are in a marriage they shouldn't have gone into in the first place.

Edit: Please don't turn this into a pro- or anti-abortion debate. :/ The decision rests on Kuga and the mother. Us fighting about it is going to bring up the same points and debates we 'debated' about all through our school years.
 
So ya.

I deserve the comments I got. Lol. No offense taken.

The mom wants to keep the baby. I suggested termination and/or adoption. She said hell no.

I don't care about this woman. I have no intentions of marrying her. I'm 25 and she is 36.

Funny thing is though, the day I got the news, I was gonna tell her I wanted nothing to do with her anymore. Now the status quo has changed. She said she was on the pill, and ya.. Entrapment anyone?

Will see what happens.
 
Kuga said:
So ya.

I deserve the comments I got. Lol. No offense taken.

The mom wants to keep the baby. I suggested termination and/or adoption. She said hell no.

I don't care about this woman. I have no intentions of marrying her. I'm 25 and she is 36.

Funny thing is though, the day I got the news, I was gonna tell her I wanted nothing to do with her anymore. Now the status quo has changed. She said she was on the pill, and ya.. Entrapment anyone?

Will see what happens.
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So the plot thickens..Good luck dude, hope it doesn't turn out to be something crazy.
 
Tsar said:
heh. I kinda don't believe a word kuga says.
That is all.
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Was also wondering, but either way, no glove, no love.

And if she did pull a fast one on Kuga, all I can say is HAHAHAHAHA! You screw enough woman, litereally and figuratively, sooner or later you gonna get screwed back and I don't mean in the good way.
 
One of those situations where I don't know if I need to congratulate you or give my condolences ..
eish..

Good luck buddy.
 
Just so you know the pill and so forth are not 100% baby proof. ALWAYS use 2 methods if you want to prevent this from happening.
 
Yeah I dunno, no offense dude, well actually take as much offense from this as you choose to, but you're being a real dick
It also seems that you have been for quite some time

You slept with this woman, and although you have no intentions of marrying her you have wound up in this position.
I think we all understand that part, this includes you.
Now I'm not "pro" anything, everyone has their own feelings on matters that relate to new life and bringing it into this world but the fact that she has chosen or would like to keep the child does not automatically preclude you from any responsibility.
You were adult enough to sleep with her, therefore you have to be adult enough to live up to the responsibility that you are now confronted with.
Even the fact that you jokingly said "entrapment" not only demonstrates that you are incredibly immature, but also demonstrates the kind of reasoning logic that got you into this in the first place.

If you have one, go explain the situation to your father, he would probably be able to give you some guidelines on becoming/acting like a man. If not, then I feel sorry, not for you but for the child and mother
 
Xero said:
Yeah I dunno, no offense dude, well actually take as much offense from this as you choose to, but you're being a real dick
It also seems that you have been for quite some time

You slept with this woman, and although you have no intentions of marrying her you have wound up in this position.
I think we all understand that part, this includes you.
Now I'm not "pro" anything, everyone has their own feelings on matters that relate to new life and bringing it into this world but the fact that she has chosen or would like to keep the child does not automatically preclude you from any responsibility.
You were adult enough to sleep with her, therefore you have to be adult enough to live up to the responsibility that you are now confronted with.
Even the fact that you jokingly said "entrapment" not only demonstrates that you are incredibly immature, but also demonstrates the kind of reasoning logic that got you into this in the first place.

If you have one, go explain the situation to your father, he would probably be able to give you some guidelines on becoming/acting like a man. If not, then I feel sorry, not for you but for the child and mother
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I still say kuga is talking shit.
I really did not know that you can get your hand pregnant. bwawawa
 
I think we've probably laid into the guy enough now. He's admitted the mistake and admitted he was naive - and he was man enough to admit it to all of us.

Whether he's being played (which would be a remarkable irony for sure) or not will become apparent in due time. I'm sure Kuga will keep us up to date.
 
DenSweeP said:
Was also wondering, but either way, no glove, no love.

And if she did pull a fast one on Kuga, all I can say is HAHAHAHAHA! You screw enough woman, litereally and figuratively, sooner or later you gonna get screwed back and I don't mean in the good way.
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Blykbaar het hy nog nie gehoor van, ploeg in die sloot, maar saai op die walle!
 
shadowfox said:
I think we've probably laid into the guy enough now. He's admitted the mistake and admitted he was naive - and he was man enough to admit it to all of us.

Whether he's being played (which would be a remarkable irony for sure) or not will become apparent in due time. I'm sure Kuga will keep us up to date.
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Still don't give a damn. I mean he comes on and brags how many woman he has fucked then he comes and moans that he has some chick he banged pregnant and we must feel sorry for him. Nah if she is pregnant and he runs away I feel sorry for the bastard kid.
 
Tsar said:
Still don't give a damn. I mean he comes on and brags how many woman he has fucked then he comes and moans that he has some chick he banged pregnant and we must feel sorry for him. Nah if she is pregnant and he runs away I feel sorry for the bastard kid.
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He never actually asked us to feel sorry for him. Put yourself in his shoes (even if you don't want to) - if you had made the same claims and then ended up making the same mistake - in public - would you admit to it.

That takes balls. Most of us (myself probably included) would probably do our best to keep it quiet. And hope none of the people I was bragging to ever found out. So he's told us, and now he's taking a pounding for it ... but honestly speaking, everything after this becomes a bit of a personal attack - it's not necessary.

I'm not condoning anything he did, and as much as you do, I hope he makes what we consider the right decision to support the child and be a presence in his/her life and not some distant existence that they need to hear from mom about. Bad enough that he or she was an accident (I'm convinced I was an accident - I was born 9 months after New Year's, but at least my folks were married).

So I figure we wait and see what happens. And keep the judgements to ourselves.
 
shadowfox said:
He never actually asked us to feel sorry for him. Put yourself in his shoes (even if you don't want to) - if you had made the same claims and then ended up making the same mistake - in public - would you admit to it.

That takes balls. Most of us (myself probably included) would probably do our best to keep it quiet. And hope none of the people I was bragging to ever found out. So he's told us, and now he's taking a pounding for it ... but honestly speaking, everything after this becomes a bit of a personal attack - it's not necessary.

I'm not condoning anything he did, and as much as you do, I hope he makes what we consider the right decision to support the child and be a presence in his/her life and not some distant existence that they need to hear from mom about. Bad enough that he or she was an accident (I'm convinced I was an accident - I was born 9 months after New Year's, but at least my folks were married).

So I figure we wait and see what happens. And keep the judgements to ourselves.
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I understand but this is the internet and it really does not take balls to say shit on it.
 
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