Judge beats daughter like a savage neanderthal. No charges to be laid.

[kaytel]

Exactly. Nothing wrong with giving your kid a hiding, but this kind of thing is just wrong.

Why? If you're going to advocate beating a child who is to say how much is too much.

Honestly I would also bliksem my kid, if I got into shit for him/her downloading illegally. However I wouldn't go as bos as this oke did on his daughter, that's proper abuse. I had my fair share of hidings in Boarding school and at home as a kid, but not as bad as that.

Again, who are you to say this is abuse, but a bit less is not?

Ja that oke seriously went way overboard. There is a line to draw when it comes to discipline

And where is that line, exactly?

Isn't it quite likely that this guy beats his child quite regularly and believes in the old spoil the child drivel. For a more severe offence clearly a more severe beating is surely required. If you believe in hitting children as discipline, then as long as the parent is not killing or crippling their child what business is it of yours how long or hard they hit their child?

 

[kaytel]

QFT. If you do this to an adult, it's assault. If you do it to a child (who's even more helpless), it's discipline? Bullshit.

That applies to any hitting though doesn't it. Some people still think there's a place for hitting a child. And I must admit it is very tempting when your child is driving you crazy. It's an easy first resort. Because hitting is quick, and appears effective even when it is completely ineffective. You get the children who are immediately cowed by being beaten, the ones that learn to not get caught and the defiant ones. Those latter ones in particular will usually experience escalating beatings from their parents because hitting that type of child just makes them angry and more determined. In some cases their parents will still eventually be able to break them if the beatings are carried out regularly enough and they're severe enough. Some advocates of hitting children will even openly state the purpose is to break the child.

 

[Sick Boy]

My thoughts on this is, different strokes for different foks, I got some good cracks as a kid and it hurt like hell but hey I am still here. I am a big believer in corporal punishment, have a look at the state of disaplin and edeucation in schools today compaired to that of 20 years ago.

 

[Murph]

Yeah, I can see

 

[bradbear117]

Its a pretty heavy beating especially for a girl, my intial reaction was that the judge is out of line for going over board as he did and Im sticking to it. I was brought up with corpral punishment too and I believe in it but you really don't need more than ' 6 of the best'.


On a side note my dad once whipped me so bad that I pissed myself. I was waaaaaaay out of line but I never did anything seriously bad again. In hindsight it was probably one the most character defining experiences of my young life.

 

[SpoOkie]

I read somewhere that she said she's dropping out of high school and going to work in a games store and that she'l just continue to stay in the house and leech of her parents.

She deserved a klap or two, but on the ass, not the way he did it.

 

[Ichigo]

I read somewhere that she said she's dropping out of high school and going to work in a games store and that she'l just continue to stay in the house and leech of her parents.

She deserved a klap or two, but on the ass, not the way he did it.

Yep the beating was way over-the-top and not how punishments should happen

 

[tpex]

@Kaytel
Millions of people are in the world today who got beaten by their parents and at school, Now since the abolishment of corporal punishment we have thousands of lazy people coming out of school with no discipline and work ethic, what I would have given to have corporal punishment when I was in school instead of writing out lines and such.

Come to think if it, I also got shlutted hard with a belt, and if I ever backchatted my dad, he would just fsck me up real good. When I think back I'm glad the way I was brought up. Eventually I stopped trying to hide under the bed because that shit just really makes it worse.

haha I know exactly what you talking about, My Dad always had a long arm.

Thinking on the matter a little further...

So, put yourself in her shoes for a minute and follow me on a journey...

You have a dad that has anger issues. Obviously you know the consequences, why else hide a camera?
Aforementioned dad hates computers. You know this.
Aforementioned dad EXPRESSLY FORBADE you from using the internet.

Accounting all the above information, your response ended up as "FUCK HIM! I WILL DO WHAT I WANT!"

I'm starting to think less and less of the kid with every passing minute...

Well the story behind it is: Apparently she released this video 7 years later because he stopped giving her money and letting her use his car, black mail much?

 

[wheunis]

Well the story behind it is: Apparently she released this video 7 years later because he stopped giving her money and letting her use his car, black mail much?

I specifically mean the circumstances surrounding that day of filming...
But yeah, point taken.

Little bitch sounds like she deserves a whole lot of discipline in her life.

 

[GReeN_ORB]

There is a difference between discipline, where you cross the line occasionally, and thus get a good hiding, and day-in, day-out abuse. This is definitely the latter. Sure, when I was a kid, I got some proper discipline when I crossed the line, but never ever did I get beaten (and it is beaten, not disciplined) in such a way.

There is obviously some information that we don't have behind the story, but to say that 'little bitch deserves a whole lot of discipline in her life' is just disgusting. No one deserves to be beaten like that, even if they did deserve discipline.

PS.

@ kaytel - if you don't know where to draw the line between discipline and abuse, maybe you shouldn't have kids until you do have some idea. Same goes for you wheunis.

*edit*

As some people have pointed out, getting a proper smack from your folks once in your life is character-defining. It then stands to reason that if it's day-in, day-out, that would also be character defining, and not in a good way. For those of you who are skeptical as to whether this is abuse, maybe you should google actions normally exhibited by the beater and the beaten. It may give you some insight into why this lady acted the way she did.

 

[to0kenZA]

There is a difference between discipline, where you cross the line occasionally, and thus get a good hiding, and day-in, day-out abuse. This is definitely the latter. Sure, when I was a kid, I got some proper discipline when I crossed the line, but never ever did I get beaten (and it is beaten, not disciplined) in such a way.

There is obviously some information that we don't have behind the story, but to say that 'little bitch deserves a whole lot of discipline in her life' is just disgusting. No one deserves to be beaten like that, even if they did deserve discipline.

PS.

@ kaytel - if you don't know where to draw the line between discipline and abuse, maybe you shouldn't have kids until you do have some idea. Same goes for you wheunis.

*edit*

As some people have pointed out, getting a proper smack from your folks once in your life is character-defining. It then stands to reason that if it's day-in, day-out, that would also be character defining, and not in a good way. For those of you who are skeptical as to whether this is abuse, maybe you should google actions normally exhibited by the beater and the beaten. It may give you some insight into why this lady acted the way she did.

So how do you know she was abused and beaten every day?

 

[Garyvdh]

He has since been suspended...

http://www.capitalfm.co.ke/news/2011/11/us-judge-who-beat-daughter-with-belt-suspended/