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Wenzdayz said:
but it does increase your chances of finding someone.... True story
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yeah I agree. But Mr hagan has to ask himself is he ready for one? I wasn't when I had a gf last year.

I personally have stopped caring and worrying about it. I am focused on getting a green beret

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Tsar said:
yeah I agree. But Mr hagan has to ask himself is he ready for one? I wasn't when I had a gf last year.

I personally have stopped caring and worrying about it. I am focused on getting a green beret

/snip unfashionable accessory
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Green is SOOOOOO 2013. Red's where it's @, bro.

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Mephisto_Helix said:
these days it doesn't have time to dangle yo :p


but I'm groovy, how about yourself
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Busy as a one-legged man in an ass-kicking contest. Problem is it feels like my ass is the one taking most of the kicks.
As a matter of fact, I have another meeting in about 5 min (my third of the day).
 
Tsar said:
yeah I agree. But Mr hagan has to ask himself is he ready for one? I wasn't when I had a gf last year.

I personally have stopped caring and worrying about it. I am focused on getting a green beret

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Ready - is dependent on how I'll act given the circumstances.

I'm very much a "here and now" kinda person. My mood changes depending on who I see and how they typically make me feel. Pissed at someone in the one moment; smiles at another the next. Women, typically, cause me to smile - 'specially if I like 'em.
 
MH, besides craving chocolate fondant ?

Just struggling to understand what unisa wants from me from one of my HRM questions :D Otherwise Im all good.
 
Was gonna be going with Unisa very soon for a course but the poephols don't seem to have sound engineering available so had to look elsewhere ..... stoopid Unisa


As to chocolate fondant, who isn't always craving that sinful shit :D
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
Was gonna be going with Unisa very soon for a course but the poephols don't seem to have sound engineering available so had to look elsewhere ..... stoopid Unisa


As to chocolate fondant, who isn't always craving that sinful shit :D
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Bwahaha you dodged a bullet dude - unisa is crap!

Read the case study “Gourmet-2-Go” at the end of Chapter 10 in the prescribed book and then
answer the question that follows:
Barry realises that when they employ additional staff, one of the first things that will need to be
addressed is their training. This will also apply to staff at the franchises that will open as there
is an “our way” of doing things. As a business consultant recently approached by Barry, you
must inform him of the correct way of going about it. Also indicate who will need training. (6)

I have no idea what they want me to do - I decided to list the steps that you need to do training.

As for the fondant - mine failed epically this weekend - it came out rock hard blocks that even my dogs wouldnt eat
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
Who else is there? Unisa, Damelin and Intec is all I can think of.
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I will ask a friend of mine who just got his degree in that, Unisa and Damelin is a no go, I suspect you will have to actually go to a collage, cos not sure if they offer subjects like that as a distance learning subject.
 
Hagan said:
Once again, I dream I have a girlfriend :)
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Wyvern said:
Hagan - the fact is simple stop obsessing about getting a girl. It will happen when it happens, the more you stress about it the bigger the chances are you will end up in a miserable, hopeless situation plus desperation starts radiating from you and that is VERY unappealing.
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Hagan said:
Wow! But Vern, I don't obsess about it. I sometimes make mention of a cute girl I've seen. Perhaps it is subconscious, but consciously - I do not obsess.
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Wyvern said:
Its something you will have to work on hun, if you look back at the convo's you have had with most of us, what is the main topic been?


Sorry for being so blunt, but its honesty you require, maybe this time it will sink in? You can ask the others Im just as honest irl with them. I know being alone sucks, but you need to learn to be comfortable in your own company, once you get that right, you will be surprised. Its a lesson we all have to learn at some point. But then again who am I to speak, I run away from relationships - except for when I know there is no chance of a relationship besides friendship. But that is a choice I made, I just dont have that in me to go thru the crap again. I prefer being single, that way I am responsible for my own feelings.
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PsychoFish said:
There is not trick to "not be single", however you need to get out. Get a hobby/recreational activity that takes place outside of your place of residence. That is the only way to meet new and interesting people. I'm not saying that you must just do something to pick up people, do something you actually enjoy, the main thing is to do it with other people. Secondly, stop giving a crap what other people say or think of you, you need to be comfortable with who and what you are without being with someone else or shaping yourself to become what other people want you to become. The only opinion that really matters is your own, however always do the "can I live with myself if I make this decision" type of approach, and follow it up with a "will I be ok with my decision in 5, 10, 15, etc years".

Now that you have met new and potentially crazy people (I'm a loony female magnet myself), start hanging out. Don't go out to get or be in a relationship, just hang out. Watch movies, play games, go do something, have parties, have sleepovers and have fun. Then start weeding out the crazies, the loonies and the generally unstable people you might have met. Make a move, deal with the rejection, make another move, etc etc. Eventually something happens, just dont run around so desperate for a relationship that you start "dating" after meeting a person once or twice as that will almost always end up in heartache.

So stop dreaming and start doing.
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Wyvern said:
What He said!

As well as keep an eye out some of us crazies are truly amazing people who gives a damn about people we know.

Good for you, but remember to go as well you can't meet girls when you don't try to see them as people/friends first and in real life. Believe it or not even socially challenged gamer girls (yes they do exist) are not hanging out here expecting to be whisked off their feet just because you drool on them over the internet. Also the aforementioned socially challenged gamer girls are real live people who expect to be treated as such

So just keep that in mind and you will do well.
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To summarize in bullet form (because bullet form is where the hype is) and add onto the plethora of life advice (I'm too young to be doing this:rolleyes:):

  • Know or get to know yourself; the good, the bad, the ugly, and the fascinating. People tend to forget that being comfortable with yourself is key to being comfortable with someone else, because this kind of gives you a gauge of what kind of people you'll be comfortable with, and the kind of people who'll be comfortable with you. It also teaches you that significant others don't complete you instead they're complementary. Singularity doesn't make you a husk, being a husk makes you a husk.

  • You'll never connect to other people (I'm not even referring to romance) if you don't meet other people (logic?). So find things to do and places to be where you can meet other and people. You probably have interests that can allow you to meet people, use them. Real interaction with people broadens your frame of thought, your view and perspective of the world, and you can learn new things (for better or worse).

  • Find a passion that positively enriches your life (I'm not talking about careers nor am I excluding them), this goes back to the husk point. You wouldn't want to be around a husk, so don't be one. The one thing that sparks connection, conversation, and relations between people is the passions they have, whether they're shared or not (then again passion can also draw lines between people, which isn't the worst thing in life).

Note: We are different people, individuals, and if you apply yourself as a person (an individual) and be the best person YOU can be (single or not), then you can possibly be with someone who can complement that. Nothing we've given here is exactly set in stone or gospel but it should make some modicum of sense.

I could add more but these are some of the basics honestly, coming from a happily single man (2 years and counting)... Also, I'm way too young for this shit, I can literally feel more of my hair turning grey:rolleyes:

EDIT: I also realize how epically late I am to this party, and hello friends :p
 
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^5 Dee

And haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaai Super Dee! Where is my chocolate fondant - since MH doesnt wanna gimme!

MH do some investigating before choosing the course - I will ask around as well for you.
 
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