I hear you.
Medical expenses can take a massive toll on a family when a loved one needs care. After experiencing it with my mom's two heart bypass surgeries and her monthly prescription medication and the infinite medical expenses accrued when my dad was on his way out, I can't stress the relief I feel living in a country with decent universal healthcare.
In Sweden the amount of money you fork out for prescription medication, visits to the doctor, hospital costs (including surgery and diagnostic costs), etc are capped at 2,200kr per year (around R3,700) and is then still dependent on what you can afford.
Tax pays for everything--your government looks out for you.
Seeing the bills my parents received scared the shit out of me and they still had some of the best medical aid coverage.
I think all any of us can really hope for in life is that we don't have to have anything too serious happen to us until we're ripe old and on our way out anyway